Mind matters: New Year’s Resolution – I’m going to be less stressed

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I have heard this mantra many times since the beginning of the year, in various forms but with the same hopes, that we will manage to lessen the stress in our lives in the coming year.

In all walks of life, among all age groups, stress is a very real issue and unless addressed and dealt with it can become a very destructive force in our lives. I recently took early retirement from my job. It was a job I loved and I worked with a great bunch of people, but the job itself was very stressful. After a brush with a serious illness a few years ago I decided that a change of lifestyle was required and in some ways, it’s only by leaving the stress behind that I realise how much freer I feel. All of us, from time to time, experience the harsher realities of life and people deal with these in a variety of different ways, some positive and some negative. More and more people are experiencing mental health issues due to the impact of an increasingly highly pressured world and it has become imperative that we find ways to counteract this pressure. The popularity of walking groups, running groups, yoga and mindfulness practices, meditation groups, among other things, are all attempts to find alternative supports in our lives that will nourish the body and help create more healthy minds. Creative arts, especially when pursued for pleasure rather than profit, have a part to play in improving our mood as they help us to get lost in the creative process and forget our negative thoughts. Creative writing, painting, cooking, gardening, playing an instrument, photography, are all pursuits that can absorb our attention and bring enjoyment and fulfilment. Regular exercise, particularly when combined with being outside, brings about chemical changes in the brain that can help us relax and sleep better.

I like to combine exercise with being in nature. Photography offers us a hobby that allows us to use our creative talents while motivating us to get outside, explore the world, capture some of the beauty that is all around us and show that beauty to others. I find that I don’t have to please anyone else with the pictures I take and show, and my progress is at my own pace. Photography is a pursuit that I can take with me wherever I go, as I have my ever-ready phone camera with me, and I can train my eyes to seek out photo opportunities even without a camera, an enjoyable activity in itself.

Perhaps one of the most powerful ways in which photography can aid as a stress buster is through the beauty of the images themselves – images that create positive energy in those who view them and provide a sense of peace, calm and even gratitude in our lives. This was highlighted for me by a recent visit to the National Gallery of Ireland in Dublin to view the Moment in Time: A Legacy of Photographs | Works from the Bank of America Collection, and View of Ireland: Collecting Photography exhibitions, where photography masters, and not so well known photographers, took me on a journey and led me into the world of their beautiful creations.

While being true that many New Year’s resolutions have gone by the wayside at this stage, the ambition to become less stressed in our lives is one that I, for one, intend to take seriously. After all – the mind matters!

The only impossible journey is the one you never begin. – Tony Robbins

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Article by Mary Carron
I grew up in Northern Ireland and experienced a lot of turmoil and trauma, both in my community and in my personal life. After teaching in a rural primary school in Co. Fermanagh for almost twenty years, I moved to Dublin where I continued my teaching career until I took early retirement in 2018. At times of crisis in my life I found myself seeking answers, initially in unhealthy ways which led to depression and deeper despair, until I began to explore more positive avenues to a healthy life. Attempting to live life to the full can bring with it a lot of stress so, after an unexpected breast cancer diagnosis (is a cancer diagnosis ever expected?) a few years ago I began to take stock and decided to retire from the job I loved, for my health’s sake. My fear on making this move was that I would be bored and unfulfilled, that I might have difficulty in finding meaning in life after work and slip into depression. I did get involved in some voluntary work, and hope to do more, but it was my rekindled passion for photography that became my saving grace. That, and blogging about my progress as a fledgling photographer on my website, has become the latest adventure in my life and one which continually opens new doors and provides exciting new opportunities, ensuring that there really is life after retirement, and a good life at that!
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