What to do if you are concerned about your teenager’s mental health
Mental health problems do occur among children and teenagers. Current statistics suggest that about 15% of young people between 12 and 15 experience a significant mental health problem (Lynch et al, 2004)
Forgiveness is for you, not anyone else
Forgiveness is not about justifying someone’s offence, forgetting their behaviour, nor reconciliation. It is way more than this. It is making yourself feel more positive. Think of a person in your life who cannot forgive, be it a friend, family member (or perhaps you)
Looking aftter your mental health, well-being and prosperity
Psychology is unique among the human sciences and helping professions for the way it uses research to help people
solve or cope with problems
Let go of the search for external approval and find true freedom
Have you ever got to a point in your life where you felt you had everything, yet there was still something missing? In my twenties my external success should have been enough
How to stay well when job seeking
Those of us who have gone through a job hunt that’s lasted more than a couple of weeks understand the stress and energy that interviewing can involve
10 Questions with Colm Mac Con Iomaire
Well known musician Colm Mac Con Iomaire talks to us about life, happiness and rock and roll. Colm is originally from Dublin and lives in County Wexford with his wife Sheila and their two children, Oisín and Darach
10 questions with Terry McMahon
Originally from Mullingar, Terry McMahon is an Irish director, producer, writer and actor, known for his roles in Batman Begins, and also the award winning Patrick's Day which Terry is a Producer-Writer-Director of
10 ways to slow down as the Christmas rush begins
If your life is like that of most modern people, then you're very busy. And if you're busy most of the year, then you're likely extra busy at Christmas time! As a result, you may be feeling more and more stressed as Christmas gets closer and closer
Yoga is an ancient physical, mental and spiritual practice that originated in India. The word Yoga is a Sanskrit word which means to unite. Yoga is practiced worldwide now for health and relaxation combining Pranayama (breathing) and Asanas (postures)
Know your triggers – the importance of self-awareness
Self-awareness is one of the key building blocks of a sustainable recovery and allows for recognition of ‘triggers’ that can cause distress
How to navigate the Christmas season if you are struggling
Two of the best Christmas songs of all time have to be Fairy tale of New York by The Pogues and Judy Garlands Have yourself a merry little Christmas. And of course they have something big in common. Pathos
How distraction can build children’s resilience
Developing resilience is one of the key elements in mental health and wellbeing. So it’s good to know that research now shows that resilience is a skill which can be developed, rather than a specific inbuilt disposition
Validation of children’s feelings promotes positive mental health
Dignity is defined as “the quality of being worthy of esteem or respect”. For me dignity means acknowledgement and validation of feelings
The habit of thinking too much – Mindfulness and Buteyko breathing video series
Over the coming weeks we will be sharing some of Patrick McKeown’s techniques via a new video series he has created
A Lust for Life Online CBT Course – WEEK 7
Congratulations on making your way to the final week of this CBT blog! If you have completed all the steps along the way then hopefully you have learned something valuable that might help you achieve more balanced ways of thinking
Blue Mindfulness: How big-wave surfing has taught me to live in the moment
I can see the wave coming, building momentum and I move to position myself to match its speed so I can meet it at just the right instant. Then it comes fully to life, towering over me
Boost your happiness with acts of kindness
Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook, announced that together with his wife, he would give away 99% of his shares to create a fund to make the world a better place for their newly born daughter, Mia
Helpful tips for managing the dreaded Christmas exams
It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas and for many young people, this can cause the onset of exam stress and anxiety
Facing into Christmas after losing a loved one?
It’ll be lonely this Christmas without you to hold.....The words of Mud, once a classic eighties song but now a devastating reminder during the Christmas season of that empty seat at the table
Overcoming a phobia, learning to breathe thanks to swimming and the power of mating seals
A phobia is a type of anxiety disorder, usually defined as a persistent fear of an object or situation
Nutrition: My simple steps to a healthy body and mind
It is my belief that peace of mind and a strong immune system are the key to a happy and healthy life. Good nutrition and lifestyle choices go hand in hand with managing your mental health
A Lust for Life Online CBT Course – WEEK 6
This week we are going to explore rules and assumptions and the important role they play in our thinking. We all have rules and assumptions which guide our behavior
Ways to encourage your children to grow in gratitude
Some say that the amount of gratitude we feel on a daily basis directly corresponds to the amount of happiness we have in our lives
Mindfulness – The Bicep Curl for the Brain
The growing interest in Mindfulness is an indication that there is a need to slow down, create space and reduce stress. It is time to focus on wellbeing, resilience and self-awareness. So what exactly is Mindfulness?
Iron-minder and A lust For life ambassador Jade, has a story so many young women can relate so closely to. A story where self awareness became so important, as this allowed Jade understand the importance and power of self compassion
Teaching a black dog new tricks
Men in Ireland for too long have ignored the conversation surrounding their emotional and mental well being. We can’t ignore this anymore, we need action and we need attitudes to change among our men
Mark, an Iron-minder and A lust for life ambassador, was an elite high performance cyclist, when he was suddenly and tragically knocked off his bike, where he received a serious acquired brain injury, changing his life
Are we listening to our young people?
The first step in the journey to wellbeing is to listen to our young people. For adolescents, having their voice heard is a key and vital part of social cohesion
Sunny weather does not make you happy. What you choose to do with your precious time, when the sun is shining makes you happy
Some of us put so much focus on taking care of others that we neglect our own needs and desires. And some of us are so accustomed to giving our love away to others that we forget to save some for ourselves
Ironmind: We are all capable of great things
About 15 months ago, I started playing with the idea of developing a television documentary that’s fundamental objective was to explore the intrinsic link between our bodies and our minds
10 questions with Laura Whitmore
TV presenter Laura Whitmore who originally hails from Bray, Co. Wicklow, talks to us about how she takes care of her wellbeing, her amazing Mother, life in London, body image and her wish for the world
A Lust for Life Online CBT Course – WEEK 5
This is week 5 of Dr. Clare’s A Lust for Life online CBT course. It’s best to follow it week by week and take your time with the processes suggested. Good luck!
A beautiful image can have incredibly positive effects on a person’s mood or stress levels. Capturing a moment with a photograph has for many years allowed people restore and relive memories that ignite happiness or calmness
Loving your body, even when it’s a burden
Love your body. We’ve heard it all before, and to most of us, raised on a diet of, well, diets, skinny celebrities and wonder cures, it’s in one ear and out the other
Walking towards wellness – Ecotherapy and Ecopsychology
Only too well I remember the first time I sought help and support from a psychotherapist. I recall sitting in a bland room looking down at a carpet the colour
When it comes to the grieving process, it can be broken down into five stages known as the five stages of grief. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, author of ‘On Grief and Grieving’, gave a detailed description of the stages
‘Vote for ‘Me and My Mate Jeffrey’ to win Irish book awards
'Me and My Mate Jeffrey' nominated for Irish book of the year, in the non fiction section. Find out how to vote
Patience is a virtue in this modern world
Learning patience can not only boost your well-being, but also enhance your self-esteem, hopefulness and keep your blues in check
A Lust for Life Online CBT Course – WEEK 4
This is week 4 of Dr. Clare’s A Lust for Life online CBT course. It’s best to follow it week by week and take your time with the processes suggested
People matter – the importance of friendship
A positive psychologist, Christopher Peterson, became well known for his motto that ‘people matter’. We are social beings and in order to feel psychologically well, we need to experience closeness with other human beings every day
Building resilience – how to protect your lust for life
As an academic lecturer and sport psychologist, I am often asked by athletes, and indeed my students, about strategies to help them cope with the stresses of training, competition, exams and difficult life events they face in general
Are you thinking of leaving your job? Take time to pause and reflect
At some point in our lives many of us will suddenly stop to look around and ask ourselves how exactly it was that we ended up in the job we’re in
How to help your children if going through separation or divorce
About one in every ten marriages ends in separation or divorce, in Ireland. That might seem high, but it is actually the lowest rate of separation and divorce in Europe and the third lowest in the world
How mindfulness and Morgan Freeman helped me become a better Mum
We all have an internal ‘narrator’ in our heads. It’s like an ongoing newsreader that’s usually unkind, judgmental, and quite critical
Alcohol, hard-core porn and social media – The challenges the soul of a modern Irish man faces
There are many things that you learn as you grow up. Many of them are culturally ingrained and have been in embedded in the psyche of the nation for decades
A Lust for Life Online CBT Course – WEEK 3
This is week 3 of Dr. Clare’s A Lust for Life online CBT course. It’s best to follow it week by week and take your time with the processes suggested. So did you actually find the time to sit down and do the exercise we talked about last week?
Moving beyond a one story life: Changing perspective
We can get trapped with a one story version of our life: ‘I’ll never amount to anything. I’m a failure at everything.’ ‘I’m worthless. I don’t deserve to be happy.’
Teacher Stress: How do you deal with it?
As a teacher, have you ever considered how much your stress really affects you? If you were honest with yourself, does it sometimes feel as though stress has invaded your life but you keep pushing it away in the hope it will just disappear
Are you feeling SAD – Seasonal Affective Disorder?
Are you feeling SAD? If so you may have SEASONAL AFFECTIVE DISORDER (SAD) a form of depression associated primarily with inadequate bright light during the winter months
If you put a bad quality petrol into your car, it will affect its performance. Similarly, instead of low cost petrol, give your body Formula 1 fuel. If you don’t eat well, don’t expect that your mind will miraculously function well
Why video gaming can be a useful activity for wellbeing
One of the most popular activities an adolescent or young person engages in is video gaming, and quite often it is considered a worry
There is window of opportunity in our lives that is unlike any other. It is those teenage years when our hormones are bouncing around inside us like the mania of LA freeway traffic, zipping and colliding all over the place
How can you feel positive, when you are flooded with negativity?
A few years ago I participated in a fascinating experiment. I was one of seventy people randomly divided into two groups. The researchers brought us into a room and showed us a clip of all that could go wrong in our lives
Exclusive to A Lust for Life – Free book for Students: ‘Tools for health, wellbeing and resilience’
Dr. Margaret O’Rourke, Cork based Clinical Psychologist has very kindly donated this LifeMatters book for students - ‘Tools for health, wellbeing and resilience’ - to A Lust for Life, for our readers to download for free
We live in a frighteningly progressive society. Traditions and cultures continuously evolve, and values and beliefs alter almost chameleon like with whatever is relevant and popular at any given time
Over the last few years I have been slowly learning the immense value of being quiet. For me this means pausing on life, slowing down, looking inside, exploring and really connecting to my thoughts
A Lust for Life Online CBT Course – WEEK 2
This is week 2 of Dr. Clare’s A Lust for Life online CBT course. It’s best to follow it week by week and take your time with the processes suggested. Did you manage to start getting in tune with what you’re thinking and feeling some of the time?
Child Anxiety: What to do if your child is anxious, worried or upset
Have you noticed that your child is displaying symptoms of stress or anxiety? Do you know what these symptoms are? You may have noticed that maybe your child has become withdrawn, is behaving poorly in school and at home
10 questions with Irish Olympian Race Walker Rob Heffernan
Niall Breslin interviews Irish race walker Rob Heffernan who has qualified for a fifth consecutive Olympic Games to take place in Rio next year
Young Irish band The Matthews to donate all funds from their new single ‘Save Me’ to Teenline
Young up and coming Irish band The Matthews are launching their new single 'Save Me' on Oct 10th and are donating every single cent from the sales on itunes to Teenline, which supports teenagers in distress
When good mental health is not good enough: we need to focus on wellness
We need more vision in tackling how we think about mental health. Previously, I have seen Mary (57) and Sean (62) both successful business people from different parts of the country, but are embarrassed to be seeing a therapist
Exploring ‘dignity’ and its connection to World Mental Health Week
I seem to be having mixed emotions leading up to World Mental Health Day this Saturday, October 10th
Talking about how hard parenthood is, somehow makes it less hard
Before I had my first baby I imagined that being a parent was exactly how Hollywood shows it – lots of ice-cream and laughing and a montage of scenes with me being a fantastic mum - baking, growing vegetables, making clothes and endlessly playing with happily smiling babies
The reason behind A Lust for Life
I spent almost 50% of my time on this earth disguising, ignoring and waging war against my mind, which at times seemed hell bent on destroying every relationship, career and passion that I pursued
If you are a carer for someone else, it is so important that you lovingly take care of yourself also. It is a very special role that requires love, compassion and hard work from both parties. In reality we are all ‘carers’!
Almost everyone will experience mental health difficulties. How could they not? Our mental health comes under pressure at times of stress. At times of loss
The beginning of a conversation with the soul
‘The unexamined life is not worth living’. Socrates. Ever ask yourself “What am I doing with my life?”
It’s been hard to escape the word ‘mindfulness’ in recent years. Whether it’s a celebrity singing its praises in the media, or the shelves of ‘mindfulness colouring books’ in your local book shop, the ‘m-word’ seems to be getting more popular
Chasing normality in the haze of addiction
Today I am incredibly grateful that the only thoughts occupying my mind when I wake in the morning, is the day ahead and the health of my children and loved ones
Free book for A Lust for Life readers – ‘Active and Healthy Aging’
Cork based Clinical Psychologist has very kindly donated this LifeMatters book Active and Healthy Aging - A Practical and Complete Guide To Psychological Health and Wellbeing
A Lust for Life Online CBT Course – WEEK 1
Clinical Psychologist Dr. Clare Kambamettu has very kindly developed an online CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) course exclusively for A Lust for Life readers
Minding your mind in pregnancy
Congratulations on your pregnancy! If you’re newly pregnant it probably all feels a bit surreal, exciting and terrifying all at that same time. You might be feeling a bit ‘green’, but not showing yet, but behind the scenes your body is changing
Positive Psychology: what is it all about?
Over the years, hundreds, if not thousands of books have been written and even more articles published about courageous people who have overcome their adversities
A while back I was delighted to hear the inspiring Conor Cusack, Cork Hurler, mental health advocate speak. During his talk Conor talk about the uniqueness and preciousness of each one of us
Mental fitness is a pre-emptive building block to tackling and addressing some of our nation’s oldest challenges and is central to our requirements for new conversations about our emotional wellbeing and (mental) health
Tired but wired? Let’s wake up to the importance of sleep
Getting good quality sleep (7 -8 hours ideally) makes the other 16 so much easier
Bressie interviews Ireland’s rising star (who happens to have one of the most beautiful voices on the planet!) Gavin James
Getting unstuck: How a shy waterford man became a bold adventurer
I’ve spent the last five years of my life traveling all around the world. Just recently I wrapped up a 44-month trip that saw me visit 36 countries without taking a single flight
Kindness makes for good business
I wasn't quite sure how to start this. I sit here in my office thinking back to where this journey began. I'm thinking to myself, “How much should I share? Should I really tell the world my inner most thoughts?”
Spoken Word – ‘Prozac Positivity’
Here is a poem by Stephen James Smith, a Dublin poet and playwright, on his personal journey with his journey with medication for his mental health
“I’m going to talk about death – and why we need to try and become friends”
In the next 600 words or so I’m going to use words that we don’t like to say very much. They’re simple enough words I suppose but that doesn’t make them easy
Take five – Body, Mind, Behaviour, Context and Spirit
The idea here is based around what we call it the Five Systems Model (shown below). The Model says that all humans are made up of five systems - body, mind, behaviour, context and spirit
Preventing suicide: reaching out and saving lives
World Suicide Prevention Day each year affords us an opportunity to reflect and to remember that the battle to reduce the numbers of people completing suicide is one we can never afford to lose focus on
Are you thinking about suicide as an option for you?
Thanks for taking a few minutes to read this, it won’t take very long. I can only assume that things in your life have become very painful, overwhelming and seemingly unbearable for you to have gotten to the point
Walking the path together: improving collaborative practices in mental health
When I started in Clinical Psychology, my main aim was to stick rigidly to the text books and the manuals
Fundamentally we are social animals. We all need connection. Isolation and loneliness set the conditions for despair and depression
My steps to recovery and how to avoid relapse from an eating disorder
For the past six years of my life I have been living with an eating disorder which also caused depression and anxiety
In the early 1980s, Professor James Pennebaker based in the University of Austin, Texas, began to run a simple experiment with students at the university
Bullying: tips for parents and children
Many children will be heading back to school this week. Most will be happy to see their friends but some are dreading the end of summer
